Daily Bread: Ecclesiastes 5:18

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This entry is from my reading yesterday in Ecclesiastes 5:18-20.  Whenever I have read this verse in the past, especially considering the preceding verses, I walked away with the general “don’t chase money, it’s not our source of happiness” concept.  Growing up poor, I haven’t personally struggled with that issue, which may have been why I kinda skimmed over this section in the past.  Thankfully, with the S.O.A.P. method I took a more detailed look:


Even so, I have noticed one thing, at least, that is good. It is good for people to eat, drink, and enjoy their work under the sun during the short life God has given them, and to accept their lot in life. And it is a good thing to receive wealth from God and the good health to enjoy it. To enjoy your work and accept your lot in life—this is indeed a gift from God.  God keeps such people so busy enjoying life that they take no time to brood over the past.” Ecc 5:18-20 NLT


The lines, “enjoy your work and accept your lot in life” and “so busy enjoying life, that they take no time to brood over the past”  stuck out to me most. Countless times in the bible we see where God calls us to work, and shows us the value of working hard. Even Adam had work on DAY 1 of his life! So just accept the fact that you will have to work, recognize the ability to work is a blessing and take joy in it!  Secondly, perhaps the chaos or workload in our life never seems to end because IT is a gift from God!  Maybe instead of fighting the workload, we can embrace it as a gift to keep our minds on today, the beauty of this moment, rather than the wounds or frustrations of yesterday.  I also couldn’t helping thinking about it in terms of how we interact with people, not just the physical work of life.  That relationships take effort, and you need to accept people for who they are in order to find joy in the connection.


In regards to work, I need to kinda suck it up, and just KNOW that it’s not supposed to be easy.  Maybe I won’t feel like I’m drowning in the pressures of motherhood and life if I quit treating it like an affliction.  I love being a wife and mother,  and though I don’t see my children as a burden, I find myself feeling like a failure more often than not.  I recognize that in my exhaustion I’ve developed this idea that I’m too weak to carry this load and subliminally felt that if people really cared, they’d rescue me.  Maybe, just maybe….this IS MY RESCUE.  What if I started to see it for what it is instead of how I feel?  It’s just laundry. It’s just dirty dishes. It’s just a math lesson. It’s just a pile of papers.  If I could quit letting my “success” in these areas determine my self worth, I’d see the bigger picture.  If I could remember that I am the daughter of the King of Kings, loved and redeemed by His Blood, and it’s his approval alone that I seek.  I need to remember,  that the ONLY way I’d ever be able to do the work HE has for me, is by His Grace and with His Strength.

Relationship wise, I need to quit expecting people to meet my needs and accept them for who they are.  I can struggle with pride as I think I hold myself to a high standard and consider myself quick to admit my failures.  Somewhere along the line, that opinion fed into a twisted rationalization of holding other people to extreme standards.  I don’t expect people to be perfect, I know that’s crazy…but somehow I act like it’s less crazy to demand they subscribe to my definition of their role, and that I have a right to be upset when they won’t at least admit they failed my expectations.  When did I let my hurt and pain turn me into a relational dictator?  Maybe instead of focusing on what people need to do in order to make it EASIER for me to love them, or fulfill my part of the relationship….I could, idk… LOVE THEM UNCONDITIONALLY!

Note: Please do not think I am condoning an emotionally toxic or physically abusive relationship by any means.  If you find yourself in that situation, please reach out to a trusted professional for help and guidance to lead you to safety.  I am just  that I personally need to shift the focus in my interactions with my loved ones and close friends from, “what they should be doing if they love me” to “what should I be doing if I love them?”


Thank you Lord for directing me to this passage and loving me enough to show me the errors of my ways.  Help me to recognize that the work You have for me is a blessing and with You, Your yolk is easy and Your burden is light.  Help me Lord to see and behold the beauty and joy in trials, to praise You no matter what and to know that with You all things are possible…that it is the joy of the Lord which gives me strength.  Thank you Lord for my family and friends, forgive me for not appreciating them more or expecting them to meet my needs when it is You I should run to in all things.  Forgive me for letting my expectations cause me to dwell on my pain rather seeing the work of relationships as the blessing it is.  Please help me to see and love people as you do.  Thank you for drawing me to your Word and for living where I have  the freedom to share it.  In your Holy Name I pray, Amen 🙂


So in a nutshell, circumstances are not our source of happiness, God is.  With that in mind,  we can focus on the work He has for us, and press on with joy to bring him Glory. We can also remember to accept people for who they are, and love them as Christ did, without condition as we look to God to fulfill our needs.

John 10:10 reminds us that “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full”

That’s what I noticed this time….how about you? Have you read other verses that support this idea? Maybe a different line spoke to you…or in a different way?  I’d love to hear your observations in the comments!


4 thoughts on “Daily Bread: Ecclesiastes 5:18

  1. Good word. While not even close to being perfect at it, I am trying to make it an intentional habit of responding “I get to” instead of “I have to.” I get to sit and wait on my son at practice for hours because he is healthy and able to play a sport. I get to wash dishes because we have food and dishes and a place to live, etc… It is so easy to get tired and discouraged with the repetition and monotony of day to day life. Solomon said it well. Blessings and encouragement. Keep up the good work. 🙂

    1. Thank you Deb, I love that pattern of thinking! “I get to …” is a wonderful application. That would be a great way to “pray without ceasing” and thank God for things while we are working on them, “thank you for the running water to do this laundry,” etc. Thank you for your kind words, motivation, and awesome insight! 🙂

  2. Wow, this is truly stellar. My first thought upon reading the scripture passage was on the first sentence: “Even so, I have noticed one thing, at least, that is good.” I wonder how all of our mindsets would change if we ended every single day with this thought? That no matter what, we pull out at least one good thing of each day and credit it straight back up to God. Like you, I struggle with sky-high expectations and am quick to point out my own failures. I wish I could be closer to God in this way and just trust more in His will for me and not hate on his creation!

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    1. Thank you Erica for sharing what spoke to you! Yes, I really think if I purposed to have a more thankful attitude then perhaps I wouldn’t feel so much like a failure at times. I love what you said, “not hate on His creation!”….it’s so true. If we are walking in HIS calling for us, then we are exactly where we need to be. Half of the expectations we place on our shoulders are due to our own pride or misunderstandings…”his yoke is easy and his burden is light”. Thank you so much for stopping by! 🙂

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